August 23rd, 2010 I would like to seduce her son, how do?
hole teacher Hello, I am a divorced woman for many years been a man with a child. When in March this year, his son had just finished taking a bath, I am ready to take a bath in the bathroom, found hanging on the door of the Bai Tiangang replaced the underwear, should be thrown into the washing machine, and bra cup which actually has a sticky semen Beach, underwear is also, I am shocked, I know, the son of underwear has just been masturbation with, but was followed by a burst of inexplicable excitement, I even wear them in the body to come back from work … last Friday the 6th, the son's room door ajar, I saw his son lying in bed, wearing my bra, and my underwear masturbation penis sleeve, not even aware I'm back, I know what to do, shoot until you see the son of semen in my underwear and other parts of clean underpants his penis, my heart's Zaore up … even after I did not expose his son's move, and now even have to seduce her son's mental … I feel a strong sense of guilt, I understand his son's move his physical and mental health is not any good, I really do not know how to do …
asked him a teacher of psychology consultancy Kong:
Hello, we can understand your feelings, you are divorce many years, has his own feelings are all the children who count on you to give everything for the child, this is a great maternal love, but sexually, they do not fit you a mother's role to pay!
children are in adolescence, he has a certain sense of curiosity and dim sense of the psychological and mental development on mature enough, plus you are the children most came into contact with a woman, which he projected the sexual your body, and the children of single parent families, more likely to Oedipus complex, because the lack of fatherly love, he will naturally positions itself to a father's role, playing the role of the father! to keep the sexual fantasy of the mother and requirements!
incest mother and son in our previous cases, the child will continued to probe her mother, but at this time, the mother's attitude is very important. We know everyone will have sexual needs, this is a human instinct, and you divorced for many years, there will be a certain degree of sexual repression When the children to the mothers of hints and many mothers are very contradictory. divorced women, because the marriage fails, there will be some of the men the sense of insecurity, so try not to go with the feelings of others, fear of hurt, but son different, the son is safe and reliable, so many mothers in the subconscious, will believe that a sexual relationship with his son, very safe, add your own physical needs of the child's strong demand will reluctantly occurrence relations. and comforted myself that this is his selfless love for children, but when the desire to meet the future, will fall into deep self-reproach among!
like you, we do not recommend you take a child as an ideal of the object, which is the psychological development of children and you are unhealthy. When children appear on your sexually suggestive, we recommend that you do not feel shy, but determined to refuse the child, the child should not have any illusions! if conditional, it is best to re-start a new feeling, do not their feelings are put to the kids, let the children learn and grow independently, but also give yourself the opportunity to re-start love!