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5 4, the media reported that three of the 90 workers in Taizhou suicide after the network similar to the results the two died, the other one was rescued over , shocked the community. Parties to the child's parents grief stricken, bitter, because they do not understand, in the end what is the reason for their children onto the road to ruin? Parents usually do not feel that they have very obvious exception. Faced with these unexpected events, the majority of parents lingering fear, today's children how did it? Why such an extreme way frequently choose to deal with life?

yesterday “mad mad” program group to interview me on this case, I analyzed the causes of the incident and made a number of prevention measures, to share this with you, maybe some of you Help.

look through the report, the three children of migrant workers is likely to be suffering from depression. And suicide pacts also illustrates the psychological problems they are very serious, but the root causes of the tragedy is a poor way of family education, family relations lead to serious problems. By survivors Chenze You description can be seen: on the one hand, their parents are busy working long-term neglect of their psychological needs, leading them external pressure to bear alone, and spoiled it again since childhood, the ability to withstand external pressures become very fragile, so when they encounter the pressure exceeds the capacity of their time that they are easy to take such an extreme way of committing suicide; another , the family father, some of the behavior such as alcoholism, domestic violence, so that they have not been able from childhood into the mother's attachment to the father's identity, and this is what psychologists call the “original family” of long under the subtle influence of time, the subconscious has its own identity as the same mother, the weak, so the face of family difficulties and social pressures chosen not positive efforts, choosing instead to blame others give up on themselves; Finally, because adolescents are especially vulnerable subject to peer influence, which is similar to the situation of the three children of migrant workers, their negative emotional interaction between the cumulative and ultimately lead to the tragedy of suicide pacts.

Of course, these tragedies are not inevitable, their children to avoid psychological problems or mental illness the best way is to establish a close parent-child relationship! This is very important! parents to realize that no matter how busy his work, must pay attention to children psychological needs, such as being respected, recognized, to be concerned about being appreciated, etc., try to establish intimacy with the children's parent-child relationship.

Specifically, the parents do at least a few points: First: The good way of education, such as authoritarian or democratic type, which is to train children optimistic, generous, positive psychology, health and character sound the best way to avoid spoiling type, neglectful, violent and other undesirable form of education; second: to understand a child growing up in the psychological characteristics and to take reasonable coexistence model, such as understanding the 11 ~ 14 -year-old young people will generally occur during the rebellion period, showing not listen to their parents, this is the inevitable adolescent mental normal growth of a phase, it can not be considered “obedient is the good boy,” which is usually the most common Chinese teaching children a misunderstanding; No. 3: children grow up, if mistakes, parents must avoid brutal beatings and other simple way, but as friends with the children through the same communication, understand the reasons for them to learn, this will help the child decompression, so that he He felt no matter how far out the difficulties encountered in the community, parents, his strong backing, that would encourage children to confront the difficulties and setbacks. Of course, if the relationship with the children now have a very rigid, it is recommended to try to make friends with their children's friends, so that they understand children's psychology through such effects may be better, if still does not work, suggests that parents should look for a psychiatrist as soon as possible, seek professional help to avoid tragedies.

I have been called on the community should pay attention to the mental health of children of migrant workers, the CYL Central Committee now also attaches great importance from a perspective that is “poor second generation” of mental health problems, this is a very serious problem, if the “poor second-generation” can not be right to face their own life experience and difficulties, but only blindly to complain or even give up on themselves, in other words, their state of mind or mental health problems may affect the stability of society will affect every individual, therefore each of us has a responsibility to address this problem to find ways to make our best effort to solve this problem, otherwise our children will one day might be as innocent objects were killed in the school.