August 27th, 2010 The new era of cohabitation how far away from the marriage
Now, there is a new term cohabitation, which contains the meaning of cohabitation for the only non-marriage, the two sides a voluntary basis, similar to live together, but there is no future commitment to life the essence of living together for short times after ! So, after living together in the Age of the concept of point of view is not consistent with cohabitation, that is due to both sides of white only required to come together! In this way, and aroused much controversy, derogatory praise different!
Background: The social foundation of living together before marriage
cohabitation (cohabitation / bedandboard) refers to two people for some purpose of living together temporarily, is generally used for heterosexual ! cohabitation with marriage is not the same as marriage is to obtain legal recognition of marital relations is not easily lift the relations must pass certain legal proceedings legal recognition of cohabitation is not an act at any time for people will terminate the relationship. Overall, the phenomenon of living together bad, because the parties are living together without any protection.
cohabitation, is not just a new term was. Since the reform and opening up, the original attitude towards the concept of marriage is also a serious change, but gonna get married before living together is also a hint in the portrait, has been accepted by many people and imitation. This is due to a greater extent in cohabitation on marriage to provide for the future whether to the old basis, of course, this cohabitation of Fangshi The purposes of marriage is always the final destination, even in the absence of a red books that received before for both parents agree that during which includes many factors, such as family housing conditions, impact of economic factors and so on.
recently a city of 15 000 thousand men and women to participate in the network survey, 78.9% of people admitted to having premarital cohabitation experience, advertisements even more people that experience did not regret it, even if no result, most people also believe that cohabitation was a very good memory. Cohabitation by the unmarried cohabitation, the trial marriage, then living together before marriage, more peaceful and emotional terms and simple. Today, the concept of more open-minded people, cohabitation is another normal thing, the two people who love to live with the woman to pack clothes for each other, the other man's arm as a pillow, even if not execution for various reasons sub-hand, old age together, but also has many haunting fragments of life … … phenomenon: cohabitation women mistake committed when the “claim”
mistake many women as men committed to the claim that grip In the hands of the final will be able to realize their rights, it is not. Commitment is not black and white, even in black and white, and produce legal effects, and can not be forced to sell Di. He promised his love life, he promised to marry the first love you, marry you, and finally he did not marry, and how to do – get the hand is real, hold in their hands and wallets of millions of IOU inside million in cash, which is true –
woman, afraid to be kept in the dark. Single-minded business with cohabitation world, waiting for the realization of marriage, but finds the other side already without ever plans. Is an example of a friend, with a slightly larger than their older woman in love, living together, and over time inappropriate for married women to go home only to find a wife. Mother not satisfied with the woman, a friend together with their performance when they have to understand, but why women themselves kept in the dark. Every time when a woman sweet gentle smile, my heart can not stop the waves of slightly cold pan. Marriage, perhaps in the women's heart is still a dream to touch, while others, not the responsibility of blowing soap bubbles break. Reality: a woman 10 times split are false, one man is true
I believe that a woman broke up ten times ten times that are false, I believe a man that is really breaking up.
quarrel, and a woman break up trouble boring life, and robbed a woman to break up with computers, a woman complained that derailed the sake of breaking up, a nose, a woman tears it to break up … … Finally, if Donghonghong, to restore the deadlock. I did not want to hear a man say break up, I do not know how to face the man firmly. Cool bar, bleeding heart crying in the bar, the other says it makes even more offensive, not willing to … … Finally it – can really save a man's determination to break up, later in life is trembling. However, men will not easily break up with me.
living in cohabitation, the most should not be thinking is “why should I not take the initiative so that the other party.” Numerous touch to themselves and others and those that should not, blowing bitter feeling. Woman, the cook – man, the money – so if a woman cooking, if a man does to make money … … a series of contradictions in the accumulation of trivial little things where, in the end, tired men, because they customary patience, but they really should not bear thinking about life. At this time, went to the wedding of age.
Worry: the end of cohabitation not marriage
living with each other most of distress are reluctant to marry a woman, hey, a woman. Distress their youth, to pay their own distress, anguish which not a moment when the half-red books.
Why cohabitation for one year, two, three, four years after the … … have to be married –
Why cohabitation one, two, three, four … … After not getting married –
cohabitation is not a condition of marriage, as marriage is not for the love insurance. Cohabitation made the decision that we must dare to dare living with the consequences. Marriage to cohabitation should be a natural for the excessive. Ibid cohabitants and the boat, but could not pass the bridge of marriage, came to a bridge, it killed a total Buzhi Yu. Been thinking the other would not marry their own, the other party will not marry him, this is not some state of mind of the cohabitants.
cohabitant marriage should be a planned, slow process, not a gorgeous, romantic scenes, the romantic desire for luxury living with both sides to have no real. To progress to the calm and pleasant to talk about marriage, about how two people like using money to put banquet, wedding photos there to talk about, talk about where to honeymoon travel … … and not think is advertised in front of each other hard in the begging themselves before agreeing to this marriage. Both men and women would have to correct and understandable desire to express his wishes to marry, and find out Duifang wants, not always grow in its own speculation own non-sense of security. Give vent to their network so confused, it is better to do more practical things in life. Time after living together: no responsibility no obligation
